(Words) I don't mind being 'wrong' but please don't try to 'change' my mind unsolicited.

'Cause I'm not here to change yours.. 

I'm not even gonna beat around the bush. I like to be right. We all pretty much do. It is feels good. Nothing like knowing you are right. Truly. 

We are human though and sometimes we are wrong. It is a fact. I usually don't talk much when I am wrong. That's just me though. Some of you though... (chuckles) 


Sometimes, in a discussion, more THAN ONE PARTY IS WRONG. We have a hard time accepting that one though. We are taught that there is 'right and wrong' and a winner must be declared! Not true. Especially when we are dealing with 'what we feel'. I KNOW BETTER THAN THAT THOUGH. It is a 'Life' lesson that knows NO AGE limit in regards to when you learn it. Sometimes...HELL MOST TIMES...YOU HAVE TO 'RELEARN IT' over and over again in many different settings. I digress though. Another post..another time..


Sometimes, a 'discussion' is nothing more than a two or more people discussing their theories on a certain subject. Mixed in with some facts of course but mainly theories and speculation. Actually, this would describe most discussions. We may know one or two facts and then we sprinkle in our various theories and state those as fact too! I try not to do it but I'm guilty of that so I USUALLY ADMIT THAT IT IS MY THOUGHT. Not some of you though. Nope. You state your opinion like it is 'fact'. Naw. It isn't. Pretty sure most of you encounter this daily on Twitter. An opinion followed (or preceded with)a hash tagged '#fact' after it all because the person tweeting has a small sample size that 'agrees' with their thoughts on whatever the subject is at hand. 

There is DEFINITELY no winner in this scenario. Sorry. I hate to break it to you. Not if the parties involved TRULY believe their theories. You aren't gonna change folks minds. I have learned that. So I don't try. If you ask me 'why' I think something, I will tell you. If I happen to see where I am 'flawed' in my ways of thinking, cool. If I don't though...eh... Same with ME THOUGH. That is a TWO WAY STREET. If I ask you or tell you to 'explain' why you feel that way, I'm not doing so to 'change your mind'. I genuinely want to know. I might not 'agree' with your way of thinking but my goal is not to 'win'. I see that I am clearly different though as some of you ask with the INTENT ON ONE THING.  Y'all really are out here trying to change folks minds. I don't have time for that shit. I don't have time to argue about 'speculation', 'thought' or feelings. You can have that. 

The facts though? They are the facts. It doesn't matter what you 'think someone would do based on what they did in other situations' if they ACTUALLY DID IT in THIS ONE. You can't dispute those. Try as you might and well...some of you do try REALLY FUCKING HARD TO DO SO, YOU CAN'T. Very hard. Can't dispute them. 


One fact doesn't a 'discussion' make though. Some of you don't know that either. We get it. You got one fact off. Cool. Lets talk about those other four things that you 'spoke' on based on how you would feel if you were in the situation. Again, I'm not here to argue your 'feelings'. As soon as I see that whatever we are discussing is more of you projecting how you would feel or how you would react, I'm out. I can't 'argue' that down nor will I try. I'm not 'armed with enough information' to even attempt it. So I don't... 



Listen, I LOVE TO DISCUSS THINGS. Not argue though. I'll bow out. You got that. I know I'm not always 'right'. Never professed that. There are times when I see some of the things folks say or feel and I want to say something SO BAD BUT I DON'T. I can't do it all the time though so I UNDERSTAND the urge to come and 'debate' someone's opinion. You just have to remember....


You aren't the only one who is passionate about what they believe. Some folks will concede from your flurry of 'words' while others will stand toe to toe with you and go word for word with you. 

No matter how emphatic you state your opinion. No matter how many times you 'skip over', gloss over what the other person is saying, or whatever defensive tactics you employ once you feel like someone isn't 'hearing you'. No matter how many times you try to make the conversation personal. No matter how many times you 'give a dismissive credit and go 'right back into your point'. It doesn't make you 'right'. It just makes you combative. That's it. I don't care how much the peanut gallery 'chuckles' it up or tells you 'Get 'em son..I see you..'. You still aren't 'right'... Sometimes nobody 'wins'. It is just that simple. 



Now you understand why I don't really 'debate' folks. I've come to the understandings above and I really can't be out here getting that 'upset' about things. I mean, I will entertain a conversation for a bit here and there but I know what I know and you know what you know. We can just leave it at that. Sometimes, BOTH OF US MIGHT BE RIGHT and sometimes both of us might be wrong. Sometimes you might be right and if that is the case, I PROBABLY KNOW YOU ARE AND THAT IS WHY I DON'T 'BRING THE DISCUSSION TO YOU'. Sometimes though..I'm right... Sometimes.. 

Maybe I don't wanna 'reveal' just how I know. @ proving how I know certain shit. Sometimes, it just isn't that important to me to jeopardize what I have been privy to as far as information goes. Since I know I'm not the only one who knows 'shit', I GIVE THAT SAME COURTESY to you when we 'discuss' something. I'm just not here for the disrespectful conversations at this point though. So if I brush you off, you can go to this post and say "Ah...I remember now.." @ why. 

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(Words) I need you to need me to accept you..- You.

......(So I can feel better about myself and feel powerful for once in my pitiful life..)  and if you don't....

Read the title really slow again before you proceed. It will make better sense that way. @ what you are about to read.


We all like to be right so that's not really my issue. My issue is with the the dog piling and ish when someone doesn't 'flow the way you do'. The need for all of you compromise yourselves daily to 'fit in' with someone who can't do shit for you. Who WOULDN'T DO SHIT FOR YOU. Who would just as soon shit on you like y'all do the poor unfortunate soul who 'dares to do things the way you guys don't'. That is where my issue lies. Note I didn't say I didn't 'understand'. Oh I UNDERSTAND why. Not here for that right now though.



I could probably make this post every day B. For real. At least once a day, I see some super dumb shit on Twitter (sometimes Facebook but mostly Twitter) that makes me literally shake my head. 



I should backtrack on that statement. What I am about to say is something I found out in Life long before we all started logging onto our computers and sharing our thoughts and feelings. You see, I was about 17 or so and I just took a step back from folks. I noticed that the vast majority of the 'males' that I hung around were REALLY TRYING TO IMPRESS EACH OTHER. Now I had always known there would be 'competition' but that isn't what I am talking about. I'm talking about folks LITERALLY hanging on the words of other dudes who weren't 'fully grown in their own right'. Forsaking what was being instilled in them by the 'grown man that that they had in their life' for some cat who didn't know shit.* At the time, my sample pool was relatively small in comparison to what it is now as far as how many people I knew and I KNEW THAT so I tried not to be too jaded and think the rest of the World was like that. I was 17. I was wrong. It pretty much is like that. 



As I grew up, I saw it on a LARGER SCALE. Cats in school, at work, in the club.... all needing to be needed. All needing others to have their opinion valued solely so other folks could exist in peace. Anytime that they felt it didn't happen, out came the jokes. Out came the 'petty arguments'. Out came the 'you aren't like us' even IF IT MADE LIGHT OF THEIR OWN CONDITIONS. 


The need to for folks to have other folks need their approval or validation is staggering out here. 

You got folks out here hurting that bad from their childhood struggles that they feel the need to cling onto shit that bad? Damm homie, get in a therapist's chair fam. Let that shit go. The funny thing about what I just said though is this..

(Whispers) Those same folks who are holding onto their 'issues' want you to 'turn the other cheek' when they lash out at you. They want you to 'let it go' or not be bothered. They actually have the audacity to run around, pick 'fights'/arguments/whatever disguised as 'voicing their opinion' with folks and expect the rest of us to just 'sit there and take it'. While they bitch and moan about EVERYTHING ELSE IN THEIR MISERABLE LITTLE LIVES every day. 

I'm not done though. What about you people who enable these folks? Fuck's your problem? How weak are YOU that you let someone 'mind fuck you' into feeling bad about ANY SITUATION that you were born into? Need I remind you that NOBODY...I MEAN NOBODY...ON THIS EARTH GOT TO CHOOSE WHERE THEY ENDED UP WHEN THEY FIRST GOT HERE? You need to remind yourself of that before you allow yourselves to be 'guilt tripped into tolerating' the bullshit. The folks who ARE LESS FORTUNATE than you didn't anymore pick or CHOOSE TO BE WHERE THEY ARE FROM than you did. I know that sounds harsh but it is THE FUCKING TRUTH. 

Nobody turned to God and said "Hey...that poverty stricken area right there! You see it? Drop me off right there.." 

So don't let anyone 'bully you' into thinking that you owe them some sort of leeway for their petulant behavior AS ADULTS over some shit that NEITHER OF YOU HAD CONTROL OVER. 

(Turns back into the camera) Yeah, that wasn't fun was it? I basically just went in on both sides. The truth is never fun kids when you tell it in its totality. Someone always catches a stray. Even I...Shit...ESPECIALLY I.. Bullet wounds all over. Such is life... You'll deal with it. I did.

Now where was I?? Oh yeah... So this need to 'feel needed in a way that belittles everyone else runs RAMPANT on the Internet. You see it every day B. Shit, some of you reading this shit PARTICIPATE IN IT EVERY DAY. 

It isn't harmless either. It feeds into the 'pack mentality' that a lot of folks have. It breeds the acceptance of jealousy as not only something one should expect but one should EMBRACE. The mentality of impressing someone also breeds dependency of approval from folks who have no say or real power in one's Life. Pretty dangerous if you ask me. It has some other effects that are not quite as dangerous but are pretty fucking annoying. In particular this one 'Jedi Mind Trick'. 

Reacting: 

The mere fact that there is a subset of folks who think that 'certain people'** who 'react'....wait..lets try this another way.


The fact that folks want...no expect...others to be devoid of the VERY HUMAN TRAITS THAT THEY THEMSELVES ARE RUNNING FROM is some sad shit. We are all human B. I've seen some of you very folks who talk that 'It's just Twitter', "Folks take this shit too serious' and all that other deflective bullshit that folks say when IT ISN'T THEIR ASS ON THE HOT SEAT, get FIRED UP ABOUT THE FOLLOWING THINGS:*** 


Your job. -Hey nigga, you chose it. Not us. Pipe down and shut the fuck up or go back to school. Should have paid attention in school dummy...Now put your shirt on with your name on it and get back on the clock. You know you shouldn't be tweeting at work. Get back to working for that 'nerd' that you used to clown back in your 'glory days' @ your teenage years..smh 


Your girl/boyfriend/husband/wife/whatever- (Hey..YOU CHOSE 'EM. Not me. Makes you an stone cold idiot. Relationships get rough.. sometimes love just ain't enough..to keep 'em going on... - Tye Phoenix. Suck it up homie. Nobody wants to hear your sob stories.) 

Your school schedule- (It's school! It is easier than the real World Junior. You are bitching about an 8 am class? It lasts an hour. Shut the fuck up, roll your stinking ass outta bed and go learn something else in school besides the town you are staying in hood spots fucker.. You are down there wasting your Momma and Daddy's money and shit..) 

About not being a kid anymore- (We told you. You didn't listen. Shut up. We don't wanna hear that shit. We get it. You and your 20 or so friends want to be 'big kids forever'. Do it. No skin off my back. Just SHUT UP ABOUT IT THOUGH. . P.S. Nobody told you that you couldn't have fun as an adult. You need to pick and choose better @ your occupations and 'Life decisions'. 

Your parents- Your mother doesn't have to let you drive 'the good car' B. It is HER CAR. Your Dad doesn't have to come up off that classic car, no matter how 'uncool' you think he is. He put in his work, whatever that was to get it. Get your own. Get outta their basement and get your own shit. Out here clowning folks who work, are grown and have their own shit while you mad your Momma won't watch 'Ratchet Wives Of Niggerville' on the 'good tv' so you can see it in HD when you get off from Taco Bell. Naw B... Get your own. Be glad they allow your ungrateful ass (on Twitter y'all are SO DISRESPECTFUL to your parents but I KNOW YOU DARE NOT SAY ANY OF THAT SHIT TO THEIR FACES) to even live outchea. 'Cause without 'em..you'd be that guy you keep posting pictures of in the street panhandling. Riding down freeways in wheelchairs and shit.. 

Your children's other parent/past relationships- I could have split this one up but for most of you, THEY ARE ONE IN THE SAME. Which in itself is not 'bad'. Things don't work out. It happens. I'll be dammed if you are gonna be out here acting like it is 'just you who is going through the bullshit' or it is through NO FAULT OF YOUR OWN. Nope. SORRY. While you may 'tweet what you want me to see', I've seen enough to know that some of you are MISERABLE AS FUCK and if you act even 10% of the way you do online, it is no wonder shit didn't work out. Which is why you are all for other folks shit 'not working out'. @ all the dirt digging, DMs spilling, nude pics leaking and other bitchass behavior you partake in. 

Your kids? Stop complaining. Half of you don't have 'em for over two hours a day. The daycare has 'em then your Mom/Dad has 'em. Stop it. You are a part time parent and I am not saying that based on the AMOUNT OF TWEETS you have. That has nothing to do with it. Nor am I basing it off of you 'not talking about your kid'. I can respect that too! I'm basing it off of what you say. I can add and subtract motherfucker. If you drop your lil man/woman off at 6 am, go to work at 9, come home at 7 from Happy Hour and then you go back out at 9.....guess how much time you spent with your kid? Oh okay...**** 


There are tons of things y'all get 'fired up' about every day that you probably need to take your own advice on and 'suck it up B'. You don't though yet you want folks to do so when it comes to you and your 'entertainment'? Fuck outta here B. Nobody is here for your 'entertainment'. Nobody has to sit there and be ridiculed for your enjoyment. You niggers didn't like it when the white man did it to you but now you expect YOUR OWN PEOPLE to lay down for that shit? Nigger please. Out here spouting off at the mouth about your claim to fame is someone 'blocking' you and shit? What kinda lame shit is THAT? Furthermore, your sense of entitlement to be heard and the insinuation that because someone is tired of hearing your wack ass comments leading you getting blocked is not a WIN. There y'all go trying to take this shit back to Little League again. Everybody doesn't get a 'trophy'. Stop crowning yourselves 'the champions of nothing'. In the words of a certain NC microphone master..

"...like being Summer School valedictorian..a C student in a room full of niggas that's flunking.." 

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Tell you what, the next time someone who isn't black says something for the amusement of white people at a black person's expense and then turns around and says 'Suck it up Black people', YOU DON'T SAY SHIT. Lets not be selective as to who can respond. If it is 'jokes' when you do it, let it be JOKES when everyone does it! Lighten the fuck up. It's all jokes right? Life is too short to be serious right? Yeah...that's what the fuck I thought nigger. You are gonna be mad. You shouldn't be though if you live life like you 'claim you do' or you want others to live it. 



I bet you won't do that though. You will cry out and I will be over there looking at you like you have two heads. Then you will cop that bullshit plea that you all do You know the one:


"I'm not that much of a monster am I?" Y'all really think I'm that bad?" Naw.. Let me show you I have a heart.." -You

-_- 

Fuck that fake shit fam. You can keep it. There you go, trying to 'fit in' again... Naw.. Stay over there on the side of 'loud and wrong'. 




**People they don't like. Let someone who they 'like' say the same thing though. -_- They are all for it and supportive. 


***I'm going to list them and then I'm going to be the asshole you 'claim' to be and give the most assholish (and true) responses that I can give since we are being 'brutally honest' and since this isn't that 'serious'. lmao Fuck it. Only, I'm DEAD ASS SERIOUS. @ my responses. 


**** As a parent, you should ALWAYS BE ABLE TO GO OUT AND GET A RELEASE. Even twice a week isn't bad. Hell a week binge a month isn't HORRIBLE. Trust me. That's cool. This is some of y'alls every day though B. I see you. Sorry. Sunday to Sunday. That's how you do. Those are the folks I'm taking to task here. 




****** I say that as I use the word nigga..nigger..throughout the post and I know how some of you are. You don't like the word and you probably assume I would be offended if a white person used it. Nope. See, unlike MANY OF YOU, I've had it used against me A LOT and quite honestly, I've come to expect its use and it has lost a lot of its sting. 8 year old me would have been PISSED. 18 year old me threw mud back and said some shit back...grown me laughs at that shit and says 'If you feel froggy then leap... " *shrugs* Care to guess how many times folks took that leap? Exactly.. 

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(Words) Passwords on phones/emails/computers X Your 'significant other and The Ugly Truth of why you want them..

If you have NEVER read one of my lil diatribes, let me warn you. I don't 'do fairy tale' endings. A lot of the shit I am going to say, even some of you my age haven't even 'seen' yet. They are lunar eclipses to some of you. You've seen pictures. You've heard stories. You just never seen the shit. It is okay. Hopefully, SOME OF IT YOU NEVER WILL. I really mean that. I want y'all living as good of a Life as you can. Just know, shit ain't sweet for everyone.

This is one of those topics that is ALWAYS up for discussion on the social networksphere. I see at least five to six tweets/Facebook statues/etc per hour on it and mostly they all say the same thing. 














DON'T TRUST ANYONE WHO HAS A CODE/PASSWORD/ETC on their phone,email,whatever that you don't have yourself if you are involved with them. 




This sounds SO GOOD IN THEORY. No access. Must be hiding something. The end. Right?




SO this is the end of the result right? Post is over and we can go on about our merry way right? Yeah...you know better don't you? (Chuckles) It is not. Not by a long shot Jack.


Let me tell you self righteous mofos something.... First though...

Let me go on ahead and get the OBVIOUS OUT OF THE WAY. Yes, in CERTAIN CASES, there are those that use these codes/passwords/whatever to hide WHATEVER ILLICIT ACTIVITIES THEY ARE PARTAKING IN. I'm not an idiot. I know that. The problem is with the assumption that ALL FOLKS WHO DO THIS ARE DOING SO TO COVER UP THEIR ACTIVITY. That's one problem. All are not. Some folks have their phone around OTHER FOLKS they don't trust not named you THAT THEY DON'T WANT IN THEIR BUSINESS. Some folks actually...wait for it...go PLACES AND HAVE LOST THEIR PHONES..and thus pertinent information because they didn't have their shit LOCKED UP. So maybe...JUST MAYBE..they are in the habit of locking their phone for THOSE REASONS. I know..that does NOT make you feel better about it...And I know why....SOME OF YOU are carrying some baggage with you...




So my first question when someone BLURTS THAT INDIGNANT PHRASE OUT IS:


Why do you need a password to a phone/computer/etc that is not yours? 

I don't trust him/her? - The answer that most folks pussy foot around and FINALLY RELENT TO or just flat out don't admit. 

I could probably end the post here huh? I mean you don't 'trust' them then you should leave right? Yeah..I could. It wouldn't be fair to me though. I won't be as absolute with it as those of you who champion the 'code access' thing are being about that. I'm not built like that. I know there are tons of reasons why folks can't just 'leave' that all of you 'perfect' people will frown upon. Another post...another time for that. For now though, lets deal with the fact you want in your significant others device for several reasons and lack of trust is one of them. 


Yeah you can 'argue' that their actions have 'gotten you to this point' but the truth of the matter is you choose to stay and deal with them. So since you choose to stay....you have some fault in this too. Deny it all you want. It is okay. It doesn't change it though...lol I know...I know..they are 'making you look through their stuff..' Stop. They aren't making you do shit. You are battling with yourself on that one dawg and it is okay. You aren't alone. Folks succumb to that battle all of the time. 


Reason #1




All the bullshit you have/had on your device/in your email/etc  aka YOUR OWN DIRT. 


The emails from that nigga you know you had no interest long term in but who gave you that ego stroke. Told you were pretty. Bought you lunch and shit... met you at the park a couple of times and..it wasn't like you wanted to keep him.. . You remember him right? 


The girl you strung along who you KNEW liked you but you wanted them Cool Greys and the money was tight at home? Plus the head was right and ....ain't like you kissed her..Yeah her... 


Wonder what your 'SO' would think about that? 


Oh you deleted it so you are good huh? They have somebody now (or did then) so they will never tell huh?


Naw B. That shit happened. It isn't all good 'cause NOW YOU WANT IN ON HIS EMAIL TO SEE WHAT THE FUCK HE HAS BEEN UP TO. You can't trust him/her for shit 'cause you see how 'blissful'*  he/she are while you know THE SHIT YOU'VE DONE. 


You actually went to that park with your man two weeks later or came home to a box of those 'Cool Greys' from him/her. So your ego has you on that 'It won't be me out this bitch'...and you start to snooping so you don't get caught out there. HOPING YOU FIND something. Wishing you could find something so you can feel justified in the bullshit you have already partaken in. Where do you think that 'That's why while you were out getting your dick sucked, I was fucking your best friend' shit comes from? Yeah... Don't act innocent now..lol 



Sidenote:


Some of you also quickly come to the realization that all the 'harmless' flirting, texting and shit you do on your phones/computers/etc JUST MIGHT BE HAPPENING on the other side so you get a little curious. So off you go, wanting to snoop. Shame on you for that shit. Like you are the only one out here who gets to 'have fun but know your limits'. FOH. Party pooping ass cats.. Or maybe you don't know your limits and you are afraid that....nevermind.. 




Reason #2

Some of you are just paranoid as fuck. Point blank. You've seen too many fucking movies or your friends who pick bullshit mates get fucked over so you automatically assume it is gonna happen. Some of you are snooping AND THE PERSON HASN'T DONE SHIT. Yet here you are...Snooping. Trying to find something. Anything. Shameful. 

I'm all for realistic approaches by the way but if you are gonna be 'realistic', take that shit the FULL MILE. @ saying you snoop because you know people 'cheat' and 'get weak'. 


You aren't going anywhere if you 'expect' him/her' to do whatever it is you think you are gonna find on that phone/computer/email so what exactly the fuck are you looking for? Oh 'so you can know'? Come off that shit. If you THINK YOU NEED TO LOOK THEN THE LEAST OF YOUR WORRIES ARE THE CONTENTS OF HIS/HERPASSWORD LOCKED iPhone.


Reason # 3


It isn't him/her that I don't trust, it is everyone else. 




Stop. The. Bullshit. First of all, why are you with someone who you think can't 'decipher' signals from the opposite (or same if that is y'alls flavor) sex? Really? You expect me to believe that shit? I almost don't want to come out and say what I am about to but if THAT IS YOUR DEFENSE, it is my duty. 


He/she actually functions just fine without you and if THEY DO NOT, then it might be time for either them to start doing so or for you to find someone else. Straight like that. You don't have to 'monitor' their conversations like they are five and if you FEEL LIKE YOU DO, you are just as much to blame for not 'helping' them with their 'issues'. Whatever you deem them to be. 


Second of all..go back up top. If that was you up there with the 'dirt' then you don't get to use this one without getting called on your bullshit. Even if it was you in your 'previous' relationship. You should have gotten over ALL OF YOUR ISSUES before now and if you aren't, that is for YOU TO WORK OUT. 


What kinda shit is that? @ monitoring conversations. FOH. Out of curiosity though, I wonder if he/she would feel the need to 'monitor' the conversation you have with the 'lunch person' who makes sure you get 'the special', even when they are all out? Or the person at the grocery store who 'makes sure your every whim' is taken care of that you smile sweetly at and play nice with? Or your work 'wife'/'husband'. You know, the one you 'told him/her' about on that 'in plain sight' bullshit? Yeah him/her? Again.... Miss me all the way with the bullshit...















I guess my issue with folks being so demanding about all this 'access' are the ones who do shit I KNOW for a fact their SO wouldn't approve of if they got wind of it.... That and the fact that it isn't 'yours'. If it is 'ours', that is different. We aren't talking about that though. We are talking about things that are individual possessions. That is what makes it MINE. The fact that I control it. I know a lot of you don't like that ideal though. 



Let me ask some of you folks who 'feel the need to have passwords and shit' something. These are things I don't see you doing. 


Why not suggest sharing a Twitter? As in, you both have the same account SOLELY. Not one for both of you and then you have your own. Just one account. Think Bennifer..TomKat.....shit like that. 


Sharing a phone NUMBER? Not a phone plan..THE SAME FUCKING NUMBER..Everyone gets the same calls. You could just simply tell each other the numbers of the folks you have calling and take it from there. Since you want total access and shit. Or maybe one phone gets text and the other gets the calls..lol I don't know..work that shit out. Lets see how you like your 'access' then.. 


Sharing the same email? I mean, they are emails right? Since there is no reason for 'multiple emails' 'cause you know folks with multiple emails cheat and shit, just get ONE BIG EMAIL. Or maybe two that you both have access and use with big storage capabilities. I know someone who did this. Well, it started off that way. I suspect that folks looked at it and discovered really quick, this is pretty silly. Alas, I still want to see it done for those who are so hell bent on having 'access'. So go on ahead and erase that email you have had for 10 years and get a joint email! (Sarcasm) 




Oh and if you are 'DOWN WITH IT' AND IN A RELATIONSHIP, please suggest these things and let me see the results. I would love to see just how many of you not only 'would' but HAVE DONE SO. I mean since I know some of you would say 'I would' just to try to shut me up. Let me see the results. I'm sure SOMEONE will do it. Not sure how happy they would be but yeah... 


Yeah that shit SOUNDS ABSURD doesn't it? Well, that's exactly how you want things though. You want access which means for all intents and purposes, you might as well SHARE AN ACCOUNT. I've seen y'all clown folks who share a Facebook so don't act like that shit would 'be okay' What's wrong Mr./Mrs. It Is About Trust? You want trust right? Lets do that though. Lets be 'transparent' then. Yeah...I didn't think so..





Shout out to all of you who 'tip toe up to the line' of wrong and think that because you didn't 'put your whole body' over it that you have 'been good'. You 'haven't'. The jig is up. You thought it, you relayed that you would and by proxy, you might as well have just went ahead and did it. @ the feelings being involved. 



Snooping sometimes nets results. Again, I'm not an idiot. Most of the time though...nothing. Most folks who ARE DOING SHIT aren't doing shit in that fashion. Not anyone with any skill. You aren't picking up the regular phone and getting numbers off of it. You aren't getting primary and secondary emails and intercepting 'lusty emails and shit' Nope. Probably aren't even getting Twitter passwords and picking up FULL ON CONVERSATIONS there either. Not with anyone who has any experience. You are more than likely going to end up doing shit like this....



You are gonna find something you think is 'suspect'. You are gonna start asking questions and eventually do some dumb shit and REALLY FUCK SOME SHIT UP. I've seen folks decide to call 'That number that only pops up when he/she is on the way home from work' thinking they had someone 'busted'. 


Next thing you know, they are on the phone with someone's boss, asking 'Who the fuck is this and why the fuck are you calling XYZ" getting folks at the very least laughed at their place of employment and at worst FIRED for having some woman/man call their phone pissing THEIR WOMAN/MAN off over some bullshit. At that point, all the 'I'm sorry' in the World can't take that back'. Laugh all you want but I've been the person who got that call. Those calls have costs folks business and more 'cause it makes me think "What kind of people do you DEAL with who are going through your phone and COLD CALLING FOLKS?" 




Am I asking you to be a fool? No. You see 'Hey come over and fuck me..." in a tagline  OF COURSE YOU SHOULD BE SNAPPING I suppose. Nobody is saying that shit. Then again, that scenario is not how it USUALLY goes down. 




Out here fucking folks money and rep looking like an idiot in the process. 




Who am I fooling...lets give our passwords out...Shit...why stop there...(SARCASM LIKE A MOFO)





You ever heard the saying 'To be a fly on the wall'? I'm sure you have..... That is what you want isn't it? @ this access...Limited fly on the wall access...anytime you damm well please..Just because...Man listen here....




If you ACTUALLY GOT TO HEAR/SEE/WITNESS every little 'act' that your SO, I don't care how sweet/innocent/faithful/whatever encountered, you'd give yourself a heart attack. You'd NEVER be in a relationship. Trust me. The folks that know this don't ask for passwords*** and the like 'cause they already know how that ends. You end up looking like a jealous lunatic and sabotaging shit. 



I HAVE ANOTHER IDEA! Lets plant a bug on each other and listen in to each other's conversations while the other one isn't around! Doesn't that sound like fun? C'mon it will be fun. You can censor yourself. I can censor myself..Or better still, you can HEAR EVERYTHING I WOULD SAY THAT YOU SHOULD ALREADY KNOW I WOULD SAY, GET YOUR FEELINGS HURT AND BE PISSED OFF AT ME WHEN YOU FINALLY DO SEE ME.


Oh wait....I know...we can INSTALL CAMERAS ON OURSELVES OR TURN THE PHONE THAT YOU WANT ACCESS TO INTO A VIRTUAL SPY CAMERA AND YOU CAN SEE AND HEAR WHAT I AM SAYING!! I mean why stop at just 'phone access'??? Doesn't that sound fun? You can get one too! Then we can, once again, censor ourselves, not say what we mean....I mean we can behave accordingly and no one will ever get into any trouble. Right? Right...-_- 




Bet your ass won't be going to the store alone as long as you are with him/her after that shit...lmao 


You'd be a nervous wreck or locked the fuck up...one or the other if we had things the way some of you want it. 









I know folks don't want to get hurt. I know folks want to be 'diligent'. That's fine. I'm all for that. What I am not all for is indicting folks for a simple 'pass code'. Nope. Not unless you are willing to then have 'all joint everything', that is double talk in my book. @ folks acting like a password is the devil. In addition, if you REALLY feel like you need 'someone's password' to feel 'secure', as MUCH AS IT PAINS ME TO SAY IT, MAYBE YOU SHOULDN'T BE WITH THEM or anyone else or at the very least, scale back your feelings the best way you know how. **** I suggest you fall back a tad in some capacity if you find yourself that bothered about a password. Shit will come out. It always does and if you can't wait for shit to do so but you know there is some 'shit', take your chances and do what you gotta do. Just make sure you are right. 
































*They may know. They may not know. Who knows. Some folks have the capacity to take that shit. Clearly, you aren't one of them though. Hence you looking through their shit. It is always funny to me when folks go looking for shit and then they find out they were snooped on too. @ when running up on someone with 'ammo' backfires. Happy snooping... 




***unless it is to an account with ACTUAL INFORMATION LIKE BILLS AND SHIT LIKE THAT ONE MIGHT REALLY NEED ACCESS TO. That is DIFFERENT THOUGH. That is not the same as asking for 'social reasons'. 




**** I don't expect you kiddies to understand that last one. That sounds like some 'unicorn' shit to you probably. You'd probably just 'leave'. If you can, do so. LOL I just offer up this one phrase..."People fall in and out of love and BACK IN LOVE again, over the course of their relationship/marriage". Now where do you suppose that saying came from young scrap? You have 'all the answers' THOUGH so I'll let you sit in your 'thinking chair' and figure it out. :) I'm sure you will come up with your 'It won't be me.." mantra.. You don't know how much I truly hope it isn't you. "Cause you are gonna get yourself royally fucked up, hot grits style, if you tout that to someone and you find yourself in that very situation after you done ran your mouth about 'what you would never do'... 

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(Music/Thoughts) My official 'thoughts' on @ChrisSkillz's 'Before Dawn' Mixtape

You know the drill by now. It is a 'review' per say but I don't call 'em that simply because stating that implies that I 'review' all music. Let me be clear. I'm not about to sit here and talk about a mixtape/album/whatever on the reg that I don't see any redeeming qualities in. I could hit you with a quick 'I don't like it..." for all of that and a simple statement like that does a post not make so......Here we are.. If that 'discredits' my thoughts to you, turn backspace your happy ass on out of this post. Does it mean that everything that I give 'thoughts' on is 'flawless'? Nope. However,  I'm not here for that honestly so even if I delve into those, don't look for your usual 'overboard' antics you see in other places...anyhow....


Let's get into this kid from Dover, Delaware's LATEST joint. He has a couple of more tapes out. His music is usually in my blog's music player so you may have heard him here. Matter of fact, he has a song that sampled THE FOREIGN EXCHANGE'S 'Take Off Your Blues" joint that I play PRETTY FREQUENTLY on my Twitter and have featured here.. He was on RapEFX with Sway the other week. You may have seen him at SXSW this year as well.  You may have seen the interview I did with him albeit a little short. Shameless plug, it was BEFORE any of those other folks interviewed him btw. @ my interview. Use the search button to find them on here or here's an idea.... USE GOOGLE. It is your friend. His tapes are all over DatPiff....









Here is it track by track...Brief description of what I got out of it....



Here's the tape itself in case you want to hear it track by track...

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Sunset- For those of you unfamiliar with Chris Skillz, this track is the perfect setup. He speaks on his life as it is RIGHT NOW. At present. This joint gives you a PEEK into depression. The kind of depression that A WHOLE LOT OF YOU SPEAK ON but don't want to diagnose it as such. This is a recurring theme in his music. What "I" got out of the track is these are his thoughts before he 'sleeps'... Deep track...


Run With Me- Boy meets girl...REAL LIFE STYLE. None of that 'I macked her...she gave up the panties..I'm the shit' type shit. Real life meet and hook up. This is how most 'folks' meet and how they end up 'apart'. This might be a little too 'grown' for some of you I know ,however, it is EXACTLY how this shit should be broken down to folks in the 18-30ish lane. Real life brings folks together. @ why folks get together. Pain, struggle and the like... It isn't always enough to keep folks together though if they aren't 'helping each other' GET OVER THE PAIN. One thing to deal with pain. A whole other thing to actually help. I don't want to give away too much of the song but there is no 'happy' ending. Lets just say that. My favorite line of this joint answers the 'eternal burning question' many folks have..'Why...'

Favorite line: "Lying to himself...he's still working.. and still loves her..has this feeling like he can't trust her..she's coming home late...felt different when he fucked her..he played cool..'cause he had no real reason not to trust her...besides 'cause she loved him...he loved her..she said that she's stressing..school had her in a funk.."

 No History-  Another reflective joints. The production on this joint is reminiscent of a certain Detroit rapper's style. Female singing a reflective hook and Chris just opening up about issues that quite frankly, not too many rappers want to talk about. First part of the joint is about a relationship and the betrayal in that. Speaks on sexual abuse as a child in the second part...This one sounds REALLY PERSONAL. Open letter to Mother about leaving him exposed to contact with someone who touched him inappropriately. Third part is about 'cutting'. I'm sure some of you have 'heard' about that but probably have never really heard anybody really speak on it. So listen up. Once you hear the song, you will get the 'no history' title. Another thought provoking song..




Dream Catcher- Let me get this out of the way RIGHT NOW. Yes, folks are talking about 'Dreams' now. They have been doing that though so unless you are 'new' to the World, this isn't some 'piggy back'. Chris is his own artist. Trust me. He RIPS THIS SHIT DOWN and it isn't a 'club song'. No diss to those who do that. (Hell, I love club songs too shit..) Anyway, I had to say that 'cause I know how 'skeptical' some of you are. The beat on this joint GOES. I wonder how long K.O. held onto this beat? 'Cause it sounds like something that HE WOULD GO OVER HIMSELF. @ why I said that. 


The title is self explanatory though. It literally means that. 


"My days are getting shorter......depression settles in... I think I met my match...what if I don't win....she don't understand that dreams don't come true sleeping........it's like my days getting shorter...my nights? Everlasting...scared to go to sleep what if I never wake up? 'Cause these dreams that I'm having I write to the beat....'cause these nightmares pierce through my heart so deep.." 

Nice flip on the beginning too. I'm pretty sure you recognize that from a certain Canadian artist's work... 


The Monster (Interlude) -  Think T.I vs. T.I.P...I won't give it away. Pretty sure, based on some of the things that I've seen some of you say, you can relate to this joint. It is short and sweet. 


"Pull it..pull it..end it all...." 


Suicidal Note ft. K.O (Kyle Owens) -  If you have ever had someone you know commit suicide, this joint will touch you. If you have ever thought of it, this will also touch you. The production and the hook are stellar btw but that is probably secondary to the message. He is speaking to those 'truly in pain' outchea. We all say 'That's a shame' when it happens but very few of us use our art to speak to those while they are still here. I think this joint does that. Maybe someone will hear this and know that there are others that feel this way and get help. Hell, it might speak FOR THEM.. Like this particular line in the song does here.

"These feelings ain't new..I've had these feelings since I was two..Plus ain't no doctor can save me or get me through..my fate..please don't judge me it could be you..Either abused or you are accused...keep your mouth shut. They telling me to move on. Live Life try to be strong..I been a victim... "


See what I mean? @ strong lyrics.  




Young Man Pt. 3-ft. Al- Fatir - I would strongly suggest you go back and listen to Chris's other tapes so you can catch up on the this trilogy of songs BUT it isn't 'mandatory'. You will get the gist of the song QUICK. Once again, the young men take the mirror, turn it around and get deep down and honest on this joint. No pretense. Al leads off. I want an duo album with him and Chris. Now. Not now..Right now.

"I sit and dream in the dark. Create a spark from the shit that I write. Lights dim but his future is bright. Someone told me. And he told me 'Not everybody is your homie' ....taste a lil success and those friends is now phony..'


The Moment- "The lights..the city...someone's after me...'till I give no resistance.." 

The way the track was done is pretty unique. His lyrics are punched in with an echo effect. Definitely makes you take notice if you are into that type of detail. The lyrics are on good. I will say that the beat is a lil monotone but the message is not lost because of it. The hook, which is what I typed out first, negate that for me, which makes the track more than listenable for me. This is about as close as you are gonna get from me in the way of a 'complaint' as I actually like the hook and the lyrics. I can tell this is one of those songs I won't 'fully get' until I am in one of 'those moods'. 


On The Run-  This song is unapologetic in its 'real hip hop' stance. I know a lot of you 'hate' that moniker but you can't have it both ways. See, you if you 'don't like that kind of hip hop', you are QUICK to use the moniker so don't get mad when folks use it for positive. *shrugs* You know what he means. He means NO BULLSHIT. Mofos getting up there with no flow. No lyrics..Just talking on the record. Lets not get brand new and shit. Needless to say..this nigga gets on this record and SPITS HIS ASS OFF. He is just saying the same thing you 'piss and moan about' in your Twitter TL. Stop my nig.

Period. I won't even quote lyrics. Just listen to the song. You should recognize the sample at the beginning. It was a nice flip on it too.  






Life Goes On ft. Big Pat & Jigz- If he 'lost you' on that last track, you are back on this one. Speaks on all of the folks that he has lost over the years. The beat on this joint is outta here. This is BBQ music mayne. Straight up. Big Pat and Jigz did the track justice as well. Very dope joint.




Live-  K.O. on the ivory man.. @ the beginning of this joint. Just sets the mood. Then Chris comes in with that inspirational shit while explaining the struggle it may take to get there. He speaks on why he can talk about what it is he does. His mother's Cancer struggle. The things that motivate him. I know a lot of you feel like YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES are the only ones that could light a fire up under someone to do something. Nope. Everybody has a story B....- S. Carter. This is Chris's. Dope hook..dope production..dope lyrics.. 




Outro- (Sunrise) - Time to wake up. Last track. I look at this track like that period of time when you are 'trying to wake up', you can hear what's going around you but you aren't quite awake yet. You are half sleep, half dreaming and the two meld. That is what this track reminds me of. He speaks on the things that went on in 'in the night' (the things he touched on in this mixtape) and what it means....as he embarks on 'today's journey'. 






Now I gave you what I THOUGHT THE SONGS MEANT to me. You may listen and get something totally different. Once again this is the reason that I am hesitant to call these things 'reviews'. I hate telling folks what I say is the 'gospel'. If you get what I got out of it, cool. If not, no sweat. Hell, Chris might even read this shit and be like 'Naw homie, that's not what I meant by that song there.." as he didn't 'tell me what he meant track by track'. That is the BEAUTY OF MUSIC....well...good music to me anyway. You can take it and meld it into so many other things. I personally have enjoyed this mixtape since its release on Saturday. Played it while working out, out driving or just sitting around the house along side some other new releases (If you follow me on Instagram, you know the ones I'm talking about). This fits RIGHT INTO WHAT I LIKE TO LISTEN TO so if you 'respect' my musical ear, give it a shot. You may actually like it. 



 

Here is all of their info in case you are an artist reading/listening to the tracks I put up and decide, this is a kid I would like to work with. Good people. I will be honest, I would like to connect my 'friends' in the music business with the kid BUT I know these things must happen as organically as possible so perhaps one day it will happen...

@Chrisskillz Produced by @Hookkilla http://statecitymusic.com http://chrisskillzmusic.com http://facebook.com/chrisskillz http://twitter.com/chrisskillz http://Soundclick.com/Hookkillabeatz

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(Words) You are only famous because of Internet.....Big fish/small pond statements...

(Chuckles) We love to THROW THIS ONE AROUND. One minute, we are dissing cats for being 'famous for throwing a football, dunking a basketball, and the like' and the VERY NEXT MINUTE, when someone uses their 'brain' and becomes known via a tool that MOST OF US ONLY USE MARGINALLY AT BEST to become known, here comes the dissing.

Same Internet that the 'people whose fame you 'respect' use' to keep their names on the tips of folk's tongues..Make Twitter accounts and Facebook pages. Make blogs and have websites. REAL PEOPLE MIND YOU. Not that Internet. It is 'fake'. No real people exist there so we can't be talking about 'THE INTERNET'.

Same Internet that you are on trying to 'promote whatever it is you do' and put your causes, thoughts and desires out into the World. 

The same 'PARTY' THAT MOST OF YOU ARE A LATE AS HELL TO...@ the Internet. Not THAT INTERNET..




Ya'll CAN'T BE TALKING ABOUT THAT SAME INTERNET? 



The same one.. Damm if you aren't.. 

The SAME INTERNET that 'houses myths and shit you can't believe' but you use as a 'source' for any and all things 'ratcheted'. 

The same internet that you log onto from your FIFTY DOLLAR WALMART iPhone (or Android or in some cases your BB) and LOOK AT VIDEOS OF FOLKS GETTING THEIR ASS BEAT WITH GLEE. Not that Internet? No..Tell me we aren't talking about THAT INTERNET?


We talking about THE INTERNET...not 'REAL LIFE'...not 'REAL LIFE'...we are talking about THE INTERNET? - A.I.


Not the Internet that is FULL OF REAL PEOPLE, DOING REAL SEARCHES AND MAKING REAL JOKES. The same Internet that has folks 'hunched over at their cubicles to sneak peeks on Twitter and Facebook' AT WORK, or just BLATANTLY ON THE COMPANY COMPUTER, reading folks TLs. Not that Internet?


Naw..ya'll must be talking about the 'other Internet'...Because the Internet it sounds like you are talking about is chock full of fake personas, folks who really aren't what they say and at best a 1000 people who make sure the Internet as a whole stays 'poppin'. The rest of us are just 'bots. Spam if you will. Damm you got me. I'm just a fucking 'spam bot' who has been programmed to type in shit AS IT HAPPENS WITH FEELING AN EMOTION. The jig is up...-_- Just YESTERDAY, I saw someone say 'Twitter is not real'... See what I mean?





I mean it HAS TO BE THAT WAY with the way you folks say 'Oh folks just know you off the Internet..'. One big DISMISSIVE WAVE. Especially how some of the 'real' folks have started to get on the Internet and proclaim it to be fake...while....wait for it.... BEING ON THE INTERNET. The irony.... Pot out here staying 'BLACK' as usual...making fun of Kettle being 'JUST AS BLACK'. Gotta love it. 







Did it ever occur to you that MAYBE you must 'missed out' on a that person's special talent? That maybe it just wasn't meant for you to see it when it was in front of your face? Maybe that you are too blinded by what happened in the 7th grade to that person that you were NEVER GOING TO SEE THEM AS ANYMORE THAN THE PERSON WHO HAD 'XYZ' happen to them? 

Of course not because that is the way that YOU ARE USED TO BEING TREATED. Nobody ever gave YOU A SNOWBALL'S CHANCE IN HELL to be anymore than Keisha/Tony from around the way'. So why should you let anyone else 'free' of that? @ why some of you use this phrase. 


I also think that some of you are SO LOST IN YOUR OWN LITTLE 'REAL LIFE' WORLD'S THAT YOU DON'T REALIZE THE OTHER 97% OF THE WORLD'S POPULATION IS LIVING A TOTALLY DIFFERENT LIFE. You know where the 'petty shit' ya'll deem 'so important' is mere child's play. Some of the things that you and your circle of a hundred or so (I'm counting your enemies too who subscribe to your group think) have deemed 'essential life components' don't mean SHIT TO THE REST OF THE 97% OF THE WORLD. (I'm being nice with that 3% too. It is actually less than that...)  

What does THIS HAVE TO DO WITH THE POST? Everything. I've seen a WHOLE LOT OF YOU come on the Internet talking that 

'Folks like these aren't what's hot where I'm from..'. 

'I only fuck with 'real'.... (insert whatever little sayings you want'. 

That's funny 'cause I know SOME OF YOU. I won't say you haven't done 'anything' but LETS BE REAL HERE. You aren't 'running anything' where you are from either. The cats you 'fuck with'? They don't fuck with you and if they DO HAPPEN to have you 'around', it is only to use you. So lets stop that. Not only that, YOUR WORLD ISN'T THE ONLY THING 'POPPING' IN YOUR AREA. You can stop that lie too. It is the only thing YOU FUCK WITH maybe but it DAMM SURE ISN'T THE ONLY THING 'POPPING' in your area. You are no BETTER THAN THE PEOPLE that you say are 'only famous because of the Internet' as you are only 'known' to A VERY SMALL SECT OF FOLKS in YOUR OWN AREA. I use the term 'known' loosely btw. "Cause I could know you, know what you have done and not have ONE FUCKING OUNCE OF RESPECT FOR YOU. Know that. Trust me, there are cats I 'know of'. Don't give ONE FUCK ABOUT THEM OR WHAT THEY 'HAVE going on..'That ability isn't 'exclusive to folks who are stuck in their own circles' or who are 'cut from a different cloth'......







(There WAS DEFINITELY SOMETHING HERE. I'm saving it for another time. Don't worry)

On the flip, I won't act like I don't know that there is some merit to making such a statement. I also won't act like that is because I FLAT OUT DON'T LIKE THE PERSONA BEING PORTRAYED BY THAT PERSON. I don't deal with it 'offline' so I damm sure don't want it in my face 'online'. Shit is tired. Shit is old to me SO I CHOOSE NOT TO DEAL WITH IT DIRECTLY. That doesn't mean the person is 'lame for being known from the Internet' It just means that they are 'lame' in general to me. Get it? 

The 'Internet' part of the equation never factors in for me 'cause I look at this like one big OPEN RECESS. Which a lot of you don't. Especially those of you who don't know the 'behind the scenes' stuff, the statistics and the like. If you REALLY KNEW how many folks this shit reached, you'd get stage fright. For real. I see it everyday B. @ when someone I feature finds out truly how many folks come through the 'little' bit of Internet presence that I have. I'm but a vanilla bean speck in a HUGE BOWL OF ICE CREAM in Internet terms but that is still 10k folks a day. That's a lot of people man. So I'm not as 'dismissive' of 'Internet fame' as some of you are. I've seen the numbers. I know they aren't 'bots'. I've encountered or corresponded with too many 'living folks' to be THAT DISMISSIVE about it like some of you. I do UNDERSTAND however why some of you feel like you do.


Obviously, I'm not bothered 'too bad' by the idea of someone being 'known because of the Internet' as this piece is actually IN DEFENSE of 'the idea of being famous solely from the Internet'. That's because I know that despite the assholia of a good twenty or so of them, the 'general populous' of folks who have gained notoriety from it have done so by reaching ACTUAL PEOPLE. I can't dismiss that fact. Sorry. Maybe YOU CAN since you can 'categorically put them in some box of folks you wouldn't 'fuck with' anyway' but I can'. I know better. I've seen what folks ARE LOOKING AT ON THE INTERNET. From the 'trillest' nigga to the dainty chick. They look at some 'pretty lame' shit fam. Even if they just 'glance at it'. Real good folks too.




Every time I hear that phrase 'Famous from the Internet' I immediately wonder just HOW MANY FOLKS THE PERSON WHO IS SAYING THAT REALLY KNOWS? How large their knowledge base is? Do they understand that in order to be 'popular', no one needs THEIR APPROVAL? These are the things I wonder. 

I also wonder if there is a bit of jealousy involved. What I have noticed is that the person who usually makes the statement 'knows' of the person in whatever little region they live in and 'wants some of the attention they feel like they get offline' so some jealousy sets in. Mind you, when I say 'know', I really mean.. THEY HAVE HEARD SHIT ABOUT THEM FROM SOMEONE THAT THEY FUCK WITH who they 'trust'. 9/10, folks don't be around each other 24 hours a day to KNOW ENOUGH TO BE TALKING THE SHIT THEY DO BUT LETS FACE IT. People are gullible. They love 'dirt'. They love 'gossip. Men and women. So when they hear 'bad things', that is what they gravitate to. ESPECIALLY when someone is a 'threat' to something that person does. Whether it be a 'lifestyle threat', getting money or getting 'gals/dudes'. So take that into consideration when I say 'know'. I know folks who claim they 'know' someone and haven't seen 'em in fucking 10 years. How the FUCK DO YOU 'KNOW SOMEONE' IF YOU HAVEN'T SEEN 'EM SINCE THE 6TH GRADE? That's niggas for for you...-_- Anyway...

Dudes....GROWN ASS MEN...start making little girly ass 'catty comments' about OTHER GROWN MEN. All in the name of 'exposing folks' over 'Internet fame'. Really? Grown men do not worry about other grown men family. Hate to break it to you. That's 'condensed soup' games right there. Sure you can have 'thoughts' and the like but a FULL OUT CAMPAIGN? Naw B..Not kosher.. At all.


The women? We won't even discuss them anymore than to say that I see folks 'airing out other folks dirty laundry that they supposedly don't care about' more than I've seen links to the latest Viddy fight on Facebook. 


I'm not jealous, I just don't like 'fake' people..-You

There is a simple solution to this. Eliminate them from your news feed and minimize your contact with them when possible.

I don't follow them on social networks, subscribe to their blogs and when at all possible, read much about them. Occasionally, their 'rhetoric' is bought to my attention though. Sometimes, (Hey the Sun shines on a dog's ass sometimes) they are RIGHT AND I GIVE THEM CREDIT. Most of the times, they are off base to me and may say my piece and let it be.
us' of that group consists of GOOD PEOPLE. Some of which had NO INTENTIONS WHATSOEVER of becoming this and they are literally going with the flow and taking it as it comes. I can't knock that. You shouldn't either.



I will say this though....


Now I know this is 'new' to some of you as you just 'got here' like I said earlier. Some of you are 'late' and that is just what it is. No need to get on here and 'knock' niggas for being on something that you thought was 'silly' 10 years ago. Take your L and keep it moving. You lunched on this one. You can't win 'em all fam. Every time you utter that phrase with that 'condescending' tone, you make YOURSELF LOOK JEALOUS AND PETTY. Especially if you just got here. 

If you have BEEN HERE and have never been one of the more 'popular' or polarizing figures over the course of your Internet adventures, take that for what it is worth. Might not be in you Champ. I think some of you KNOW THAT and therefore you don't 'seek it out'. Which is a GREAT THING. 


Those of you who are secretly 'seeking it' but are still throwing out 'Being Internet famous is lame' need to know this much though. The shit isn't all peaches and cream. Cats get called on the carpet EVERY DAY B. Constant questions. Cats pulling at you in your inbox and dms. Everybody wants something. For free. They want to know 'how you did it'. They want to be 'your friend'. THE SETUPS! Oh and of course, the dismissive waves from folks like yourself who THEN HAVE THE NERVE OR THE AUDACITY to 'put the crown on your head only to try to shoot that motherfucker off'. Still sound like fun? 

Big fish...small pond mentality. @ those of you knocking the 'Internet' part of the equation. 

If a cat is lame, he is lame. Cool. Don't knock 'the Internet' for it. Not the same Internet that MOST OF YOU CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT AT THIS POINT and are on for most if NOT ALL OF YOUR DAY. Not the same one that is bringing you all of this entertainment. Not the same one that allows you to have ONE BIG ROLLING CONVERSATION WITH 2OOO PLUS AT THE SAME DAMM TIME. Not that the one that brings you all the lovely ladies (and for you ladies the dudes) you see on blogs like mine. 


Naw.. leave 'THAT INTERNET' alone. It isn't it's fault. If you are the 'big fish in your local pond' that is on the Internet but now you want to be the 'big fish in the big pond', you have to EARN IT. Nobody cares that you are a big deal in YOUR CITY CUH. Stop whining and get on your grind.  We are WORLD WIDE OUTCHEA. Some of us have been doing this shit for going on TWO DECADES soon. Nothing was 'handed out'. It was earned. Just like with you in your small pond. You EARNED THAT. Come EARN THIS though.  Broaden your horizons and shit. 




Don't tell me you don't 'want it' either. If you didn't, you wouldn't have Facebooks, Tumblrs, and Twitter accounts dedicated to your 'brand'. @ those of you who do have such things Clearly you want it. It is why you are out here trying to '50 Cent' your way through this. I'm just telling you that your approach is wrong. That game doesn't work too well in this setting.. 


For my 'regular' folks who don't see why, how or what the 'big deal' is about all of this 'Internet' stuff. Who truly see this as entertainment to make the day go by and who have NOTHING invested in it. Or who can't see why anyone would even BOTHER to try 'to invest their time in this'. Let me be succinct...

It. Is. Not. For. You. To. Understand. And. That. Is. Okay. Let it go. You don't like it....I mean understand it. IT is okay. Just keep clicking though... 'Cause CLEARLY you want to know. Otherwise, you wouldn't be scouring TLs or reading blogs or watching videos on the Net. 

Good day.

 

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